Till date I never felt it was this hard to digest how one's relationship shatter but when I started to see my closest of friends getting divorced or separated with or without children, I realised how valueless has our relationships become! I kind of, got scared. I never wished to belong to an era where no one is permanent in your life, no one is stubborn enough to be in your life no matter what. One bad move and that person is gone.
When we talk about developing, we do recognise self liberation. We think, we are liberating us by leaving a person who we were supposed to be with almost forever (at least perhaps we thought so) howsoever, today that very forever doesn't last long.
When we talk about developing, we do recognise self liberation. We think, we are liberating us by leaving a person who we were supposed to be with almost forever (at least perhaps we thought so) howsoever, today that very forever doesn't last long.
I somehow for a slight moment blamed the virtual world for it, claiming it has made us go away from the people who are just next to us or near us. It made it so easy for the people to replace one with another that, we don’t get second thoughts whilst doing so. We don’t care even if we aren’t having any real communication and losing our loved ones without even trying. With the person just beside us (who we promised a whole life of togetherness) we tend to ignore so smoothly.
Why? All because, we have one small thing in our pockets that connect us to the people all across the world. We are so indulged in this small screen that, we don't get enough time to see how big the actual world is.
Today, dating means no promises made, today love means one or two months or perhaps a year with you and I’m bored of you, today relationship means awh im not okay with your point of view? then lets get it over instead of trying to agree to disagree! Today, marriage means how well, advantageous and perfect we are for each other and if not, then lets get it over. Today, mothers only be important to us when its mother’s day that too for selfies, today father means a good income source to meet our expectations, today friends mean only if you are beneficial to me, today family means a big festive dinner in restaurants occasionally only!
We talk about feelings, but we are the ones getting used to a robotic body that is worthless, that is of no use however, it seems impossible to get back where we were, it seems impossible to leave our mobile phones or laptops somewhere around the corner and spending time with people living with us, it seems impossible to keep a relationship if we are not comfortable even to the slightest and we never even think of considering, it seems impossible to keep the friendship going even if it’s giving us trust and genuine loyalty but nothing else, it seems impossible to tolerate and be patient for anything because we are too modern, too self conscious and virtually free so we ought to be impatient, intolerant to everything and everyone.
We talk about feelings, but we are the ones getting used to a robotic body that is worthless, that is of no use however, it seems impossible to get back where we were, it seems impossible to leave our mobile phones or laptops somewhere around the corner and spending time with people living with us, it seems impossible to keep a relationship if we are not comfortable even to the slightest and we never even think of considering, it seems impossible to keep the friendship going even if it’s giving us trust and genuine loyalty but nothing else, it seems impossible to tolerate and be patient for anything because we are too modern, too self conscious and virtually free so we ought to be impatient, intolerant to everything and everyone.
Virtuality is satisfying us to the fullest in a way that we feel it’s no longer needed to have originality at all.
For the first time, I’m ashamed of being this modern, this technical, this developed that it has brought me to a position where I can be losing the touch of reality and truth. It’s depressing how we have no time for the originality because we are too busy with the fake. It’s frustrating that, we do not seek authenticity or quality anymore. We kinda run after quantity most of the times (be it in time or things). We chase them, hunt them!
Well of course, it is a very good pass time, time killer when you have to wait for something for a long time and a great entertainment but please do consider getting yourself healed by people too. Read, spent time with the people and not only with the machines. Let your phones and other entertainments be only a scope of entertainment without mixing it with your real body that actually isn't robotic at all!
Well of course, it is a very good pass time, time killer when you have to wait for something for a long time and a great entertainment but please do consider getting yourself healed by people too. Read, spent time with the people and not only with the machines. Let your phones and other entertainments be only a scope of entertainment without mixing it with your real body that actually isn't robotic at all!
Love your surroundings, your family, your friends who actually exist than to love things and people who dont or might not, be patient, try to condone.
Or else when one fine day you at your worst would want someone to heal you with affection, hugs and inspiring words, you'd end up at your bed staring at the ceiling and no one to share anything. ©
Or else when one fine day you at your worst would want someone to heal you with affection, hugs and inspiring words, you'd end up at your bed staring at the ceiling and no one to share anything. ©
Wow. This was as amazing as an Ezreal pentakill.
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